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==Restorative practice==
==Restorative practice==
[https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Restorative_practices Restorative practice] is a social science that studies how to improve and repair relationships between people and communities. The purpose is to build healthy communities, increase social capital, decrease crime and antisocial behavior, repair harm and restore relationships. It ties together research in a variety of social science fields, including education, psychology, social work, criminology, sociology, organizational development and leadership. learning and decision making. For example, [[Regenerative_communication#Restorative_circle|restorative circles]] and [[Regenerative_communication#Restorative_conference|restorative conferences]] allow victims, offenders and all those affected to come together to explore just how everyone has been affected by an offense and, when possible, to decide how to repair the harm and meet their own needs. [https://www.edutopia.org/article/building-community-restorative-circles Example guide].
[https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Restorative_practices Restorative practice] is a social science that studies how to improve and repair relationships between people and communities. The purpose is to build healthy communities, increase social capital, decrease crime and antisocial behavior, repair harm and restore relationships. It ties together research in a variety of social science fields, including education, psychology, social work, criminology, sociology, organizational development and leadership. learning and decision making. For example, [[Regenerative_Communication#Restorative_circle|restorative circles]] and [[[[Regenerative_Communication#Restorative_conference|restorative conferences]] allow victims, offenders and all those affected to come together to explore just how everyone has been affected by an offense and, when possible, to decide how to repair the harm and meet their own needs. [https://www.edutopia.org/article/building-community-restorative-circles Example guide].


===Restorative circle===
===Restorative circle===
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===Restorative conference===
===Restorative conference===
A [https://www.iirp.edu/defining-restorative/restorative-conference restorative conference] is a structured meeting between offenders, victims and both parties’ family and friends, in which they deal with the consequences of the crime or wrongdoing and decide how best to repair the harm. Neither a counseling nor a mediation process, conferencing is a victim-sensitive, straightforward problem-solving method that demonstrates how citizens can resolve their own problems when provided with a constructive forum to do so. Conferences provide victims and others with an opportunity to confront the offender, express their feelings, ask questions and have a say in the outcome. Offenders hear firsthand how their behavior has affected people. Offenders may choose to participate in a conference and begin to repair the harm they have caused by apologizing, making amends and agreeing to financial restitution or personal or community service work. [https://www.iirp.edu/defining-restorative/restorative-conference Example guidelines].
A [https://www.iirp.edu/defining-restorative/restorative-conference restorative conference] is a structured meeting between offenders, victims and both parties’ family and friends, in which they deal with the consequences of the crime or wrongdoing and decide how best to repair the harm. Neither a counseling nor a mediation process, conferencing is a victim-sensitive, straightforward problem-solving method that demonstrates how citizens can resolve their own problems when provided with a constructive forum to do so. Conferences provide victims and others with an opportunity to confront the offender, express their feelings, ask questions and have a say in the outcome. Offenders hear firsthand how their behavior has affected people. Offenders may choose to participate in a conference and begin to repair the harm they have caused by apologizing, making amends and agreeing to financial restitution or personal or community service work.


==Nonviolent communication==
==Nonviolent communication==
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=Basic training=
=Basic training=
As community leaders, this process is how we take responsibility for our role in actualizing each other in developing a regenerative culture. 12 participants in [[SEEDS]] will be trained in regenerative communication through a program known as the [https://www.centreforpeacefulsolutions.org/dialogue-road-map/ Dialogue Road Map], facilitated by [https://www.centreforpeacefulsolutions.org/staff/maria-arpa Maria Arpa]. Maria was recently the executive director of the [https://cnvc.org Center for Nonviolent Communication]. The video is from a recent conversation where she talks about the origin of her work, and what it takes to implement in a community: {{#ev:youtube|https://youtu.be/3eNDcJKMJrM}}


==Overview==
The commitment for the basic training is: April 7, 11, 14, 18 from 3-7pm UTC, at no cost. This is essentially for those looking to be trained as a certified mediation counselor, and these graduates will be a foundation from which we develop a caring-based culture in SEEDS, not to mention a practical conflict resolution program.
As community leaders, this process is how we take responsibility for our role in actualizing each other in developing a regenerative culture. Participants are trained in regenerative communication through a program known as the [https://www.centreforpeacefulsolutions.org/dialogue-road-map/ Dialogue Road Map], facilitated by [https://www.centreforpeacefulsolutions.org/staff/maria-arpa Maria Arpa]. Maria was recently the executive director of the [https://cnvc.org Center for Nonviolent Communication]. The video is from a recent conversation where she talks about the origin of her work, and what it takes to implement in a community: {{#ev:youtube|https://youtu.be/_N120XnSHEU}}


This program supports local communities looking to train a group of certified mediation counselors and regenerative communications stewards. These graduates will be a foundation from which we develop a caring-based regenerative culture, including a conflict resolution program.
In order for us to ensure this training reaches the intended audience we would like participants to reflect on the following and respond to the questions below.
   
   
This Dialogue Road Map training is intended to reach people in regenerative communities who want to design a nonviolent/healing/restorative response to conflict and who have the authority or influence to pave the way for change. It is intended to benefit the community as a community practice, not to benefit individual practitioners utilizing it for private practice.
This Dialogue Road Map training is intended to reach people in regenerative communities who want to design in a nonviolent/healing/restorative response to conflict and who have the authority or influence to pave the way for change . It is not intended to be for the betterment of an individual through one's private practice, it is to benefit the community as a community practice. You will not be licensed to earn money using the Dialogue Road Map intellectual property shared with you, and you will not be licensed to become a Dialogue Road Map trainer, as that is a year-long program. Since the training is a gift, you will be licensed to gift the skills within the SEEDS community to support the co-creation of a regenerative civilization. A primary reason why this arrangement works so well in the SEEDS ecosystem is that we are looking to reward people with SEEDS to learn regenerative communication, not to make money from them.


Applications:
Initially we will present an overview during April as an introduction to the Dialogue Road Map and how it works in communities, groups and organizations.
* One-to-one settings
* Mediating disputes
* Facilitating circles
* Building ground up community structures based on nonviolence, healing, restorative practice and love
 
We will present an orientation on March 21 as an introduction to the Dialogue Road Map and how it works in communities, groups and organizations.
   
   
Then we will select a group to undertake the year long training once sponsorship is found. Maria Arpa is founder of a nonprofit and all income generated goes towards the running of the nonprofit. Therefore this is not a commercial proposition and must not be treated as such.
Then we will select a group to undertake the year long training once sponsorship is found. Maria Arpa is founder of a nonprofit and all income generated goes towards the running of the nonprofit. Therefore this is not a commercial proposition and must not be treated as such.
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# Your role or position in that community and how you will effect change
# Your role or position in that community and how you will effect change
# Any previous learning, capacity and resilience in conflict situations
# Any previous learning, capacity and resilience in conflict situations
==A Dialogue Road Map Conversation==
The following example only applies if there isn’t already a trusted or psychologically safe environment.
{| class="wikitable"
!colspan="4"|One Regenerative vs Degenerative Conversation Example
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|'''Dialogue Road Map'''
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|'''Domination Culture'''
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|1. Listening
|'What I hear you're saying...'
|1. Feedback
|'What you should do is...'
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|2. Probing
|'Is there anything else?'
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|3. Empathy
|Identifying feelings and needs
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|4. Feedback
|'Would you be open to feedback?'
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|5. Support
|'Would you be open to support?'
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|}
==Conditions==
Because this is highly sensitive work, to the very best of your ability…
* You agree to use a high-speed internet connection and have familiarized yourself with Zoom. These trainings are designed to be done in person.
* You agree to join from a laptop or computer screen (not a phone)
* You agree to sit in a well lit space with your head and shoulders facing square onto the camera and not to move around.
* You agree to keep your camera on at all times (except for breaks)
* You agree to attend in a silent and private location that enables you to participate without background noise or interruption
* You understand that you are responsible and accountable to the whole group therefore if you miss any sessions Maria will make the call on whether you have missed too much to continue and her decision is final.
* You understand that if your internet is not stable or you have background disturbances Maria may put you in the waiting room without notice in order to minimize disruption.
* You agree not to record any part of the training or have anyone listening in who is not on camera as a participant
* Because the tools provided are meant to be utilized only by trained practitioners, you agree not to share, distribute, broadcast, adapt or use in part or in whole, any of the training materials shared with you without written permission from the facilitator.


[https://t.me/regenerativecommunication Join this Telegram group] if you're interested in participating.
[https://t.me/regenerativecommunication Join this Telegram group] if you're interested in participating.


=Facilitator training=
=Facilitator training=
The ability to train others requires completion of a nine-month program, based on the [[Regenerative_communication#Basic_training|basic training program]]:
The ability to train others requires completion of a year-long program, which is currently seeking sponsors to finance:
* 20 total days (5 hours a day) in a year. This is 100 total hours over nine months, facilitated 2-3 days at a time, 6 times a year.
* 20 total days (5 hours a day) in a year. This is 100 total hours in a year, facilitated 2-3 days at a time, 6 times a year.
* 4 hours/month practice with fellow participants.
* 4 hours/month practice with fellow participants.


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[https://t.me/regenerativecommunication Join this Telegram group] if you're interested in participating.

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